Friends With Benefits

Emphasizes the importance of friendship within marriage, drawing from Song of Solomon 5:16: "This is my beloved, and this is my friend." It highlights that while many couples excel in the romantic ("lovers") aspect of their relationship, they often neglect the friendship component, which is crucial for a strong marriage.

Key Points:

Friendship as the Foundation:

A great marriage is built on a solid friendship.

Couples should strive to be best friends, not just romantic partners.

Guidance for Singles:

The purpose of dating is to find a life partner.

During dating, individuals should look for friendship and character in a potential spouse.

It's advised to avoid dating like a consumer and instead seek a companion.

Keys to Being Best Friends with Your Spouse:

Be Loyal: Proverbs 17:17 states, "A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity."

Be Supportive: Ephesians 5:21 encourages mutual submission: "Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ."

Champion Your Spouse's Potential: Philippians 2:3-4 advises valuing others above oneself and looking to the interests of others.

Enjoying Life Together:

Couples are encouraged to have fun and enjoy each other's company.

Ecclesiastes 9:9 (ICB) says, "Enjoy life with the wife you love. Enjoy all the days of this short life God has given you here on earth."

The sermon underscores that a fulfilling marriage requires intentional effort to cultivate and maintain a deep friendship between spouses.